Oh…..to be Female!
By: Dorothy
Being human is not an easy task, we tend to say these days,
but I think it has been that way since day 1 of mankind.
But being FEMALE, now that’s a challenge and a half. I have
never been a guy, but from what I see and don`t get me wrong
guys, I know that you have your hands full trying to
co-habitate with us females.
Seriously though lets look at men from my side of the
fence..
MENS WORRIES!!
-they fear rejection from women.
-they worry about their ability to perform and satisfy women
(if they are gentlemen)
-they worry about putting food on the table.
-they worry about women not being attracted to them(younger
women in some cases)
-they worry they may not survive the women’s next
menstrual-cycle
-hmmmmmmmmmmm
-they might worry about prostate and colon-cancer(if they
are smart)
-they worry about their children, if they have any
-they worry about success
Fair enough…now.. FEMALE WORRIES!!
-we worry that we are not pretty enough
-we worry we are not thin enough
-we worry we are not sexy enough
-we worry we will not keep them interested in us
-we worry that they will find younger women more of a lift
to their egos
-we worry that we confuse them too much
-we worry about success
-we worry about our children, if we have any
-we worry that we will have to depend on men for financial
support
-we worry men will not respect us for our intelligence
-we worry about our menstrual cycles(totally
out-of-our-mind-days of the month)
-we worry about losing our youthful bodies (the ones that
men seem to totally get whiplash around)
-we worry that no matter how much time and effort we put
into keeping ourselves looking good, the men will not notice
(wallflower syndrome)
-we worry about keeping it altogether(job, house, kids, and
satisfying hubby )
-we worry about the ever dreaded menopause(eeeek)
So that’s pretty much most of the human worries that are
first to pop into my mind, whether they be yours or not,
sorry, this is my article.
Now I know that not all females and males fall into most of
these worries. But I think I am speaking for the norm of
worries.
Also women tend to be victims of society a hell of a lot
more than men, after-all is it not a “mans world”?…. Do we
see half naked men all over the television?….NOT. Women
have a lot more to prove these days than men also.
Men say, “its not a COMPETITION” , uhg! I have heard that so
many times that I want to gag at times on that answer. Then
why are we made to feel like we are in a competition? Why
are there so many women with low-self-esteem? Why are there
so many women with jealousy issues? Why is the
cosmetic-surgery market booming? Why are there radio
commercials selling cosmetic-surgery like its candy? Why is
it that women can see a good looking guy and not get
whiplash or have to wipe drool off their chins?
Many of the women I have listened to or read their thoughts
all ask these same questions. These are not just a select
few, these are many, many women from all over the world.
Guys, trust me here, I am only looking for answers, I am not
bashing at all.
Some females do not care about any of this stuff, never have
a care or worry in the world, ever wonder why. Maybe they
are so into themselves, that’s all they care about. I think
if you are that detached from whats going on in the world
around you that you definitely are on your own planet.
Maybe that’s how we all should be, but hmmm, how would the
world be with no one caring about what others think or feel?
There are so many different people in the world and I am
sure some fit nothing I have said here, remember people this
is just my brain trauma here, so take it with a smile and a
chuckle. I am merely giving you something to think about.
I do shout out to the world though for us women that really,
really care about what men think. We are working overtime to
please , so wake up guys and take notice.
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